How To Handle Disagreements With Grace

Have you ever been in a situation where you saw a couple fighting in public? It’s so awkward, right? Nobody wants to witness that kind of tension, especially when it’s two people who are supposed to love each other.

I know we’ve all seen it, and maybe even done it ourselves at some point. But there’s a better way to handle these moments.


Rono and I made a promise to each other when we got married: we would always speak positively about each other in front of other people.


At first, it was hard to stick to this promise. We’re both human, and we both have our moments. But over time, we’ve found that it’s super supportive to the foundation of our love. 

When we have a disagreement, we take a deep breath and do our best to handle it with grace in the moment. We save the conversation for later, when we can have a private conversation without distractions or pressure.

This approach has helped us to create a more respectful and loving relationship. We’re able to truly express ourselves to each other without fear of judgment or attack.


I know that not everyone is able to make this promise to their partner. But if you’re looking for a way to improve your communication and strengthen your relationship, I encourage you to try it.


It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it.

If you’re interested in learning more about how to avoid public disagreements and communicate more effectively in your relationship, check out this video …

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