Create the most intimate, sexy, collaborative, deeply loving relationship with your partner, while being ENCOURAGED by a community of other mission-driven power-couples.
Eden Sanctuary is a safe place where you will discover what your relationship can truly become – beyond what you’ve imagined – PLUS receive the love & support WHEN SHOULD YOU NEED IT and leading-edge tools & strategies to create it.
- Gain powerful reflections to be able to see yourself and your partner more easily.
- Expand your awareness of what is possible around your sexuality, spirituality, individuality and beyond.
- Expand your individual sense of self within the deepening of your partnership.
What Members Are Saying…
“Eden helps push me more in my purpose and has helped me embrace my beloved in ways that I would not have been able to do on my own”
“Eden is like a fun party that I just keep wanting to go back to over and over again. I feel supported individually and in my amazing relationship.”
“What is Eden for me? It’s the next thing. It’s the now thing. Right now. It’s happening now. And whenever I get lost, I come right back to it and it expands me more to be the best I have ever been.”
“The amazing people that have come into our lives because of Eden, is just mind blowing”
Where BELOVEDS and business moguls come together to make earth a playground again to live your purpose AND EXPRESS YOUR LOVE.
Maintaining An Amazing Relationship Isn’t HARD, CHALLENGING OR FLEETING… IT’S A COMMITMENT.
When you unravel the societal norms of “how it should be” and instead understand the aspects that CREATE LASTING LOVE, you will be able to weather any storm and endure the ups and downs that all relationships can have.
In fact, you will be able to cultivate deeper connection, understanding and relational success that will last a lifetime.
This is what Eden Sanctuary offers to its members.
Not only do you get the tools you need to thrive, but a safe and expansive place to express yourself, your desires and your love.
Every Relationship is different
Relationships are so much more than the narrow view we see represented in society. It’s not really like the movies and the old, “get married, have kids and live happily ever after” seems to be as outdated as a pension. The fact is, there is no cookie cutter way to make a relationship successful because everyone does them differently.
At Eden we offer a place to discover how YOU want your relationship to be, and offer a Sanctuary where you can fully be yourself.
As well as access to expert training, tools and more so you can have more effective communication with your partner, increase times of connection and intimacy, and be held by a loving community when you experience the bumby times.
This is not some magic pill, although it is quite magical to be a part of, it does take effort and work, but getting to do that work alongside other like-minded, mission driven bad-asses makes all the difference.
Join a network of beloveds, whom, like yourself are dedicated explorers of consciousness, love, success, wealth, community, leadership, and social change.
This is for You if…
You are in a committed relationship as life partners living a life of purpose.
You spend much of your time supporting/leading others (and are damn good at it) but when you need that same kind of support for you and your relationship, you find that you don’t have many peers who hold you in the same way you hold others.
You wish that you and your partner had more outside support than each other and you each welcome the support of community and resources in your lives.
You live a big, somewhat public life and don’t have many places that you trust where you can let go, be yourself, get vulnerable and truly do the deep work you know is required of/for your greatness.
Eden is a place to explore the edges of your relationship and your own life, to go beyond the limited maps of the past – and what the world says is possible – to create a life that truly matters and deeply fulfills you…all in a fun, sexy, playful environment!
Join this community of inspired couples with only one agenda, to help you create the relationship of your dreams. And together build better relationships and ultimately a world that works for everyone.
We stand for you, your relationship and your success together like no other place on earth.
What Members Are Saying…
“We just want to say how amazing this group of couples is and how deeply helpful and healing it is to have you conscious couples holding us both. As well as being a stand for our highest good individually and collectively. It feels like a rare privilege and I imagine a rare experience for most couples. It would be revolutionary for other couples to have this, like game-changing for relationships. We are so, so grateful for what you have created here. Love you.”
“Paula: I have sisterhoods that I seriously treasure and yet I’ve never been part of a community where couples are this deeply connected with each other. When we walked into Eden Rising, the love that was coming off of people was palpable…not just in their ‘couple-ness’, but in their outward service’ to the community itself. In other words, Eden members really wanted to see us succeed and I was enamored by that. I also was attracted to the amount of deep thinkers in this group. It’s rare that a conversation sits on the surface here. Instead, it goes straight down deep and I love that! How rare is it to be in a space filled with so much visible love and deep introspective thinking? I believe Eden is part love fiesta, part self-reflection and part entertainment/music festival all rolled up in one.
“Paul: In society, it feels like we really promote relationships and we really promote marriage and we promote all of this kind of shit, but as something to get — and what we don’t as a society promote is love. It feels like love is left out. I don’t even think anyone mentions it. And Eden is the only place I have ever been where it’s like “Oh, yeah!” — It’s just this space of love… in every pair and every couple, in every pod, everybody is sitting there and it’s like “Oh, man! Just being around all these people in love is something so freaking extraordinary.”
“One of the biggest challenges that we have faced over the years is in finding other couples who can support us on the level that we support others.
While we are a part of many amazing, conscious communities and work with some of the biggest thought leaders & cutting edge artists and musicians, we were really looking for more of a peer group. People that are at a similar stage of life as us. We found that with Rono and Sierra and their couples community.
We feel like we’ve finally met our match, found our long lost peers and discovered a tribe of incredibly evolved couples who we can share our challenges and wins with… and be met, held, loved and elevated by.
The value of that plus having access to the plethora of amazing resources that a community of this caliber brings has increased both our relationship depth and our businesses.
It’s a beautiful experience to be amongst a community of people who feel whole and connected while being powerfully on purpose. We are thrilled to be a part of this community of evolutionary couples.”
“As new parents, the support that my wife and I received thanks to being connected to the incredible couples in this community has been absolutely vital for us. We are deepening the level of our relationship in so many ways as we learn to raise our daughter consciously!
We’ve attended several off-the-chart events from the creators of the Eden Rising Restival — these are the type of experiences that we had searched for years to find.
They always create game-changing experiences and we’re so excited for the next level of this support with even more awesome couples to grow with.”
What Happens When you have a safe container to express Your love and the tools for relational Success?
What are some of the benefits of sanctuary?
Ongoing education to empower you with tools & techniques for staying in love and evolving together.
What goes on here, stays here, Sanctuary is a confidential, closed container, making it safe to share your deepest fears, desires and challenges.
Safe container and a space for you to dive deep with other incredible “dynamic duos” doing extraordinary work in the world. Where life-shifting experiences, mission-driven conversations, intimate connection create new possibilities for your relationship and beyond.
A community to support your relationship at any time you need it.
Have a place where everyone truly cares about one another and celebrates your relationships, no matter what you are going through.
A place to let down your guard and allow yourself to be held by other leaders and power couples.
Whether you have been together for a few years or a few decades, you belong here, we are all walking the same path together.
Exploring the boundaries of your partnership’s consciousness, while being held by an amazing group of couples valuing partnership as you do.
EDEN WORLD 12 PRINCIPLES
What guides this community to create more love and care for one another.
I. RELATIONSHIP IS OUR NORTH STAR
We hold with reverence that each person’s romantic partnership is a spiritual practice. Everything we explore revolves around the idea that in the context of committed partnership, we are more likely to discover even greater levels of freedom for our sovereign expression than what we would find through personal exploration alone.
We regard partnership as the perfect mirror for our present level of consciousness and our greatest teacher for the optimal path forward. We live in harmony with what serves that partnership, as we trust that it points us towards what is in the greatest service to ourselves, to the community and to the world.
In Eden, we search for the commonality with each other rather than exploit our differences, and use that as a reminder to awaken to a higher consciousness. When we hold this perspective, we can feel the boundary lines dissolve between us and our beloveds, between our shadow and our light, and between that which we revere and that which we detest. If we find ourselves in opposition, we remember to take a moment to see the complimentary and symbiotic nature within ourselves and our Beloved. We are devoted to loving one another with the fullness of our hearts.
In other words:
It is through the container of relationship that we see ourselves more completely and become the most actualized version of ourselves. We take being in relationship seriously.
II. WE ARE EACH OTHER’S BELOVED
We celebrate love. We hold each other’s love and relationship as sacred. Each member of our community is a stand for you, for your beloved and for the future selves that you can only be through dedicated commitment to each other. We are unshakable in our faith in the prosperous future of each relationship. We are ever expanding the love, care and devotion we experience with our beloveds to include our community and in turn humanity. We treat each other with the same reverence and respect that we hold for our beloveds.
In Eden, we practice knowing and loving ourselves more fully, so we can be ourselves more completely. This includes the parts that have been hidden, denied, rejected or judged. We are interconnected, and with each other as our mirrors, we can master loving ourselves and each other more completely, and create a world that works for the highest good of all.
In other words:
We extend our respect, honor and brotherly or sisterly love to everyone in Eden, even when it is challenging. When each of us practices caring for each other as beloveds, sometimes shift comes up, just like it does with your partner. Remember we are all here for the same thing. Breathe and use these principles to guide you.
III. ALL THE WAY THROUGH
When we take things “all the way through” it means that we no longer have a judgement or trigger with someone or something that was in conflict for us. It means that we each do “the work” to clear our own hearts and minds of uncompleted thoughts, unresolved interactions, character assessments and interpretations of negative intent. When we are unable to do this alone, we take the initiative to get the support from others to do so.
We meet challenges with curiosity and engage in courageous conversations that lead to the healing, greater freedom, and deeper connection we all desire most, whatever it takes.
In Eden, we do our best to not push things under the rug or hold judgments that weigh on our hearts. This principle invites us all to have the conversations that get through the layers and create an even deeper connection and understanding because we’ve gone all the way through.
In other words:
Don’t leave things unresolved. Clean it up as we go.
IV. WHAT’S IN THE WAY IS THE WAY
We believe every problem contains the seed of its own solution and the impulse of evolution. Anything we perceive as an obstacle is an opportunity for our own development and emotional maturation. We trust that all of life is conspiring for our highest good and are grateful for the obstacles that we may initially perceive as in our way, because they point to a more noble path, giving rise to new opportunities, rewards and evolutionary ways of seeing and being.
In Eden, what looks like a problem is actually the solution. We work to show up for each other with open, undefended hearts, available for feedback and other perspectives, knowing that we all bring something of value. Seeking to find the truth in the middle, the highest possibility for all, we recognize that if something is triggered, it is gold and we explore it to discover the intrinsic value of our relational field of reflections, awareness and possibilities for growth.
In other words:
What seems like a mishap is actually transformational gold in disguise. Remember, a lotus flower blooms from the deepest and thickest mud.
V. HONOR & INTEGRITY
We believe the seeds of Eden are planted in the soil of our soul and we must live with integrity for them to blossom forth into our lives. By endeavoring to align with our deepest truth, be impeccable with our words — and keep our word — we develop the congruent character that allows life to thrive in and around us. We are sincere with the agreements and promises we make and communicate honestly when we are unable to fulfill those commitments. We honor the absent and go directly to the source of any miscommunication or upset. We treat others with reverence and respect, as we would have them treat us.
In Eden, we do our best to live in integrity in all we do. We avoid triangulation or gossip and look to the principles as a way to honor one another and clear any obstacles in the way of a loving and peaceful connection.
In other words:
Be Cool. Don’t be a hypocrite and say one thing then do another. Don’t be gossiping or shit talking people. Do your best to be straight up with one another.
VI. PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
We hold the paradox of individual and shared responsibility. We cast ourselves as the author of our own experience, responsible for our thoughts, actions and circumstances.
Although we grant that same respect to others, we also hold ourselves accountable to our impact on their experience, regardless of their sensitivities or interpretations. We clean up our own messes yet, our attitude of personal responsibility does not end there. We also hold ourselves responsible for our ongoing physical, emotional, mental and spiritual development so that we learn from our mistakes.
In Eden, we are the creator of our own reality. No person or condition has the power to make us think, feel or do anything that we don’t consent to – therefore we take 100% responsibility for our thoughts, beliefs, perceptions, feelings and actions.
In other words:
Keep your shit tight.
VII. FULL SOVEREIGN EXPRESSION
It is a potent expression of divine love to be fully expressed as an individual. Every person plays a necessary role in integrating what is needed to create a world that works for everyone. We also believe that it is courageous to be fully expressed and even though this can be messy and create great contrast, it is where our differences meet that our greatest opportunities for healing, growth and evolution exist.
In Eden, we strive to live, speak and embody our most authentic self. Enriched by our differences, we celebrate the whole range of the human experience. We understand that some expressions may be soft while others are bold and we welcome both and everything in between.
In other words:
Let your freak flag fly and watch others’ heads when you are spinning your flag around.
VIII. PRESENT AWARENESS
We hold presence as the starting place from which to love and live. We recognize that being present is a prerequisite for seeing and meeting our beloveds. Because life is ever-evolving, we release the past and what the future may hold as we enter this moment, rediscovering what’s new with ourselves, our partner and the world. With present awareness, healing of separation and ultimate communion are possible.
In Eden, we value the flow and possibility that lies within each moment as we believe this reveals our true “current-see.” Each moment is its own experience with emerging miracles held within it.
In other words:
Be here now.
IX. ASSUME THE BEST
We aim to keep our relationships free of judgement, blame, contractions and resistance. We acknowledge that we can never know Truth without understanding others. We strive to know the Truth as the multidimensional perspective that includes all and excludes nothing. We hold that giving others the experience of being understood is often a prerequisite for being understood ourselves. We engender trust that each person is doing their best regardless of our perceptions.
In Eden, we are committed to creating a culture of humility and curiosity around our beliefs and stories about our Beloved and all of our Beloveds in Eden – allowing us to remain open to the diversity of perspectives that gives rise to the deeper understanding – the place in the middle that serves the highest good of all. This means that we examine and take responsibility for the “stories we make-up” and remain open to understanding and hearing ALL perspectives in service to the highest truth.
In other words:
Don’t make up stories about other people, assume the best and seek to understand. If you are going to make up stories… make up really amazing ones that paint others in a positive light. Go to the source with curiosity and share with an open heart.
X. GIVING FREQUENCY
When we are in the spirit of generosity it feeds the part of our soul that longs to be connected and feel supported. As an expression of valuing self and others we share what we have (our gifts) in order to uplift one another. Through this generosity bonds are created and weave together the fabric of a community that transcends self-interest. It is in these bonds that we enjoy true safety, security and certainty. The more we cherish our community, as a way of holding the gifts we offer, the more we cultivate a community in which everyone thrives.
By being of service to others we can experience ourselves as having a surplus of love, energy, time and resources and align with a purpose greater than ourselves. We choose to give to this community because we are inspired by its purpose: Love.
In Eden, we share from our abundance recognizing that we are all bearers of great resources. Some of us have valuable skills and services we can offer, some have finances and other acquisitions to share. We give unconditionally and wholeheartedly, trusting and knowing that we are provided for, as individuals and as a group.
In other words:
The more we give to the community, the more we are supported and all thrive. We give freely of our time, treasure and talent. “We-conomics vs. Me-conomics”
XI. ALL NEEDS MET
All human beings have needs. Some go unexpressed and some are loud and clear. At times those needs may feel in conflict with someone else’s needs, yet when we commit to seek ways to meet all needs, we illuminate a path towards creating something greater than what we originally thought possible.
As a practice we strive to distinguish our needs from our preferences, desires and self-protection and are committed to exploring any friction or perceived “problem” with an open heart and mind. This process activates an emergent field of opportunity that allows us to discover and reveal the higher needs within every situation.
In Eden, we hold sacred our faith that all needs can be met and that all of our decisions and actions can be made to serve the whole. We are unsatisfied with any conditions that leave any person’s needs unmet.
In other words:
Help a buddy out and do what you can to support one another, even when you would rather not.
XII. WE HOLD IT, TOGETHER
The way we love is guided by the belief that the individual is most efficiently healed in partnership. The way we hold community is guided by the belief that the partnership is most efficiently healed in community. Rooted in our sovereignty, we freely choose to love, serve and support each other, expanding the freedom, capacity and opportunities available to all of us.
Our struggles often feel personal, but when we reveal them to a loving community we recognize that the true nature of our struggles is, in fact, shared. We invest in each other’s development and emotional maturation, and in doing so we find ourselves liberated from the same emotional and cultural inheritance of patterned thinking and stored trauma.
In Eden, when we have the courage to be vulnerable with each other and the generosity to hold each other tenderly in that vulnerability, we open ourselves up to a more expansive experience of love. Instead of trying to “hold it together” we hold it… together.
In other words:
Being a lone ranger is a thing of the past. We are a tribe people and, as a tribe, we support each other and build each other up. I got me, you got you… we got we!