Make Sure You Are Resourced

Have you ever found yourself caught up in a heated battle with your partner? 

Maybe you experienced an argument, a disagreement, or just a clash of ideas. It happens to the best of us, right?

Well, here’s a little secret sauce for you: most of the time, these fights aren’t really about the surface-level stuff. Sure, there might be some lingering resentment or pent-up frustrations, but the root cause is often something else entirely. 


Typically, it’ s usually because one or both of you are under-resourced.


Now, what does “under-resourced” mean?

It’s all about taking good care of yourself in your relationship. Being resourced is making sure you have everything you need to thrive.


So, how can you resource yourself and avoid these conflicts altogether? 


Well, give yourself a thorough check-up. You need to regularly assess your own well-being, constantly making time for yourself and ensuring you have enough fuel, like food and water, to keep you going strong.

Oh, and here’s a pro-tip for those moments when you’re feeling a little “hangry” or cranky pants: take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself if there’s something you’re lacking and haven’t addressed. Maybe you just need a snack or a power nap. It could be that simple. 


Remember, being under-resourced is no fun, and it can lead to unnecessary conflicts.


It’s time to get resourced and do it pronto! 

Regularly check in with yourself and make sure you’re in tip-top shape, because if you’re not, those fights might just sneak up on you when you least expect them.

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Relationship sits at the center point of all human creation. How we are in relationship determines how we are as a society. When relationships thrive, humanity prospers. Eden offers a container, a sanctuary, a home to practice being in sacred union with ourselves, our beloved and each other.

By taking complete responsibility for ourselves and living in our full sovereign expression, we bring total presence to our Beloved and our community of greater Eden Beloveds, creating the sacred space to share our deepest needs, fears, and desires. By having the courage to communicate until we discover the larger truth seeking to emerge, we experience the healing and freedom that leads to radical fulfillment. 


Eden is a safe container that supports each of us to meet every part of ourselves with compassion and understanding – especially the places that have been hidden or rejected. This vow of love creates the conditions for us to continuously evolve in an ever-widening circle of beauty and abundance… until the whole world is held in our hearts.

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